Comments on: How to be a refujew in style.

By: Jewish Mother

Jewish Mother — Fri, 23 Sep 2005 15:09:29 +0000

A good Shabbos to everybody.

By: JOBBER

JOBBER — Wed, 21 Sep 2005 12:19:03 +0000

I agree CK, but when I am called ‘creep’ here day and night, this is not right CK. You can call me a troll, but it is wrong. I only reacted to being called a creep by these people.
Not only by this woman, but also by your boy Michael. For the record, I did not refer to anyone as a conservative “JEW” I was referring to Conservative “Politically”. I have a great respect for Conservative Jews, I love them. Nor did I threaten to try and ruin anyone’s life, that is, to remove a father from his children. I believe if you will review all of my posts, 95% of them are on topic, this has to do w/ the political situation in Israel, the Jewish religion, and world politics. It is only when I was attacked by these 2 people that things got out of hand. Perhaps I will just ignore them in the future, OK?

By: michael

michael — Wed, 21 Sep 2005 04:53:37 +0000

I sense that SOMEONE isn’t wearing her burqa anymore. No wonder, to return to the original topic of the post, God destroyed New Orleans.

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Wed, 21 Sep 2005 03:39:58 +0000

yeah it is exactly the basis, and at one time it made perfect sense to me. Men are weak so women have to compensate for this fault and inconvenience themselves so as not to inconvenience the men. it’s bullshit. Men should take personal responsibility for their own erections and lewd thoughts. Placing the burden on the women to be “tznius” which includes being hot and uncomfortable is just another form of “The Man”, yeah, the 18th Century Polish Rav, controlling women. Dogs can’t control their erections, men should be able to.

By: themiddle

themiddle — Wed, 21 Sep 2005 01:04:16 +0000

“if a woman runs around in a short skirt and a man gets an erection from it, we asked for that erection?”

Isn’t this part of the basis of the concept of tzniut?

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Wed, 21 Sep 2005 01:01:04 +0000

Thank you and I apologize for the bad spelling, typing in the heat of the moment can do that do even the best of us.
And as to that crappy flagpole analogy, is that the same as “if a woman runs around in a short skirt and a man gets an erection from it, we asked for that erection?” I can’t believe I bought into that shit when I was young, stupid and high on Tzfat air.

By: ck

ck — Wed, 21 Sep 2005 00:10:25 +0000

OK I have just about fucking had it. Chutzpah, you vare hereby ordered to ignore Jobber. There’s this concept on the Internet called “feeding the trolls.” The more you react to provocation the more the offending party (the troll) continues to provoke. So I urge you to please stay on topic and ignore Jobber.

Now I don’t want you to think you are being singled out for my wrath. You’re not. The next part of this comment is for Jobber. Jobber – stay on topic and please refrain from any further provocation of Chutzpah or anyone else. I have never banned anyone on Jewlicious and it offends me to even contemplate that but you and your sniping have made reading Jewlicious painful for me and for others. Stop it or I will totally ban you from the site. Your comments will be intercepted before they become publically visible and will then be unceremoniously deleted. If you try to get around the ban, all comenters will be instructed to delete you comments on site. You wanna play? Then play nice. This is the last and final warning.

By: themiddle

themiddle — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 23:59:15 +0000

Chutzpah, I asked because your spelling was atrocious on the previous comment and it’s my turn to be the spelling Nazi.

I understand your frustration with Jobber and I have to agree with you. You could, in practice, just ignore him.

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 23:46:10 +0000

No, I’m just really pissed that this asshole keeps infringing on my blogging enjoyment. (This just in: soldier forgives me.) Jobber talks about how he doesn’t like being religous one minute and the next minute he thinks he’s doing chesed by sending losers to my Jdate account? I just want to be here and comment on Jewish issues without reading shit like “Ester did you eat a meal after before that pic.” I enjoy all the Jewlicious editors/writers and bloggers, but when a person says it’s a curse to be a conservative jew and wastes my time with other shit, yeah, I get a little hostile. Funny how hundreds of people read this site and none of them felt compelled to send me fake emails or losers in the name of chesed.

By: themiddle

themiddle — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 23:33:53 +0000

Chutzpah, are you drunk?

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 22:56:09 +0000

Stay out of this Jewish mother and don’t give me your condescending flagpole analogy because as my Grandma Chutzpah used to say “go stick a flag up your ass and march it in the Macy’s Thanksgiving parade.” I’ll say what I want and don’t need you asking for “a bit of quite”.

I have no idea about husband’s leaving wives? Let me tell you something. The women in my neighbor recommended that my husband leave me because I was walking around with a hat and short sleeves in the summer instead of a sheitel and long sleeves, and because I was earning a living for our family instead of baking and cooking for the bikor cholim and driving the ill to their doctors appointments. So don’t fuckin’ tell me their are children at stake, mine have suffered plenty. In other words…step back.

I have no problem showing his wife all the creepy disgusting things he’s written including announcing on the internet what time he supposedly had marital relations with her. I pity the poor women and if she knew half of the antics this prize was up to, she’d kick him out on his creepy ass. And I don’t give a crap about his future generations, I just want him to go away and leave me alone. The creep gets off on this. It has nothing to do with chesed.

My musing are not whining and if you don’t like them, ignore them. Considering myself a “Conservative” Jewess is not a curse but a blessing. A curse is living a “shomer mitzvot” lifestyle that you don’t believe in for the “sake of your children” and then doing fucked-up things to vent your stifled, frustrated misery. I don’t freakin’ need Chesed. I turn down many online suitors a day for various reasons including poor grammer and spellling, a lack of sense of humor, lack of mutual hobbies, or lack of looks, income or education.

And don’t go getting all “tom cruise” either. Psychopharmocology helps millions of people, myself included, to live healthy, happier lives.

By: JOBBER

JOBBER — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 20:49:02 +0000

How you respond? I am responding to your whining on this blog site. I out of the goodness of my heart. You know what a creep is? You, chutzpah.

You have only hate and venom for others, who think a little differently, and outside of the box.

That is the curse of choosing to call oneself, conservative. You block off any additional options.

I am trying to help 2 friends who are single to find someone. That is creepy to you?

Sorry but this is a Jewish blog, where in Judaism doing Chessed, is a major part of the religion. Doing Chessed, is a mitzvah, not just a thing to do. There is no shiur, no limit, to how much Chessed you should do.

If you are faced w/ a situation of either davening or doing a chessed, u do the chessed.

U have no justification in throwing around the word harrassment. I am sorry that you want to waste more funds on Private investigators and lawyers, but I assure you, that alerting 2 single friends to a woman on an online dating web site, is not harrassement in either letter or spirit.

What are these drugs you are taking?

AHNY

By: Jewish Mother

Jewish Mother — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 20:33:35 +0000

We cannot complain if we run a flag up the flagpole, and people salute it. We ran it up the pole. Of course they are going to salute it. A bit of quiet solves most things. Nobody has died. So far.

Wives leave husbands over stuff like this. Really. You have no idea. There are children involved.

A fool and his family are soon parted.

Generations yet unborn are at stake. Really.

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 20:01:49 +0000

Jobber, you are hereby on notice that any communication with me with either directly or through a 3rd party is unwanted and non-consensual. If you persist in harassing me, whether through e-mail, phone, or through a 3rd person, you will be very sorry.

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 17:29:56 +0000

So creep, you are telling people about me, having them write to me through JDate & Match and then finding out how I respond to them and you see absolutely nothing creepy about that? FUCK OFF DUDE!

By: JOBBER

JOBBER — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 17:00:43 +0000

heck you’re the one getting invited to Hutzpah’s place! I don’t want to know, ROFLMFAO!!!

By: themiddle

themiddle — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 16:51:11 +0000

Jobber, I’m mostly a Showtime watcher.

By: JOBBER

JOBBER — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 15:01:34 +0000

Wrong, I sent you two single men,you told them that you don’t date. One of them lives in your town, he would have met you at a local coffeeshop or something, yes I remember no coffee dates, not even Starbucks, lol. ( I still have that gift cert. if someone wants it, a free Holiday gift from Jobber, first emailer wins.)
well you’re right I should hang out somewhere else but i have come to like this site, despite all my kvetching.

By: Chutzpah

Chutzpah — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 13:58:52 +0000

I don’t date guys 5″5 or under; guys who don’t have a University education; guys named David; guys who pretend to own Bus companies or any other guys that are obviously connected to Jobber in anyway.

I did however, date a guy I adored but who called it quits because he lives 120 miles away, so now I don’t date guys who live beyond a 60 mile radius. I also dated a guy who is my age but had no children of his own and freaked at the thought of my 3.

I am not waiting and I’m an 8-10 these days.

How’s this for vocabulary usage: “Talking about Jewish sex/dating issues is jewlicious, whereas Jobber sending Chutzpah fake dating profiles is creepy.”

By: JOBBER

JOBBER — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 13:44:04 +0000

Why would he want someone old enough to be his mother anyway? He probably found a hot size 2, which he preferred to a size 12-14. Just kidding. it is kind of funny, Chutzpah rejecting many other men waiting for this combat soldier to come back to her. I had 2 guys contact her by email during this time, and she told one of them that she does not date. This is a guy just for her, bashert.